On
the road again
Every year, sometime after our Eastham family
reunion on the second Saturday in June, it has been our practice to take a road
trip: my mother, my sister, and me. Several of our trips covered bits of the Blue Ridge Parkway. We even stopped by Dollywood one summer and liked it way
more than we expected.
Always, as soon as we were on the highway, Mom would sing
"On the road again . . ." She was always excited to take a trip. My
sister says if you called and ask her to take a trip she would be standing at
the curb with her bag packed before you hung up.
Mom was game for anything. Several years ago she rode
the highest roller coaster in the world (at that time) at Cedar Point with my
son Jamie and me. Recently Lynn and I took her up Grandfather Mountain to stand
on a metal bridge in a storm, just because we always wanted to do it, and this
was our chance.
Mom, Lynn, Judi: Mile high swinging bridge, Grandfather Mountain, North Carolina. |
More and more often I was able to incorporate some genealogy into our trips: a quick
stop at the Montgomery County, North Carolina Courthouse, a side trip through Mayodan
to see the cotton mill where my grandparents met, walking up a hill to the
saddle of the Cumberland Gap. I do a presentation about colonial migration routes, so last year we planned a trip through the Shenandoah Valley.
Mom and me: Fort Sumter |
Mom and Lynn: Bridge Day, New River Gorge |
Unfortunately, two days after I arrived in West Virginia, my
mother fell and broke her hip. Although she tied, she never really recovered
from the fall and the effects of the subsequent surgery. We didn't get our road
trip in 2013, and we wouldn't have another chance.
So today, before I finally head back to Oregon after
the better part of fourteen months away from home, my sister and I are
continuing our tradition. We are heading for Shepherdstown and Harpers Ferry, West Virginia, Winchester and Front Royal, Virginia, and Skyline Drive. We'll drive along Skyline Drive, look at
places our ancestors might have lived, visit museums, and in the Eastham family
tradition, eat a lot of good food.
It will be bittersweet, but we'll have to sing:
On the road again
Just can't wait to get on the road again
The life I love is making music with my friends
And I can't wait to get on the road again
On
the road again
Goin' places that I've never been
Seein' things that I may never see again
And I can't wait to get on the road again
Willie
Nelson
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